I keep having these dreams

Discussion in 'Random Ramblings' started by I have WHAT in my yard?, Dec 19, 2010.

  1. I have WHAT in my yard?

    I have WHAT in my yard? Chillin' With My Peeps

    Jun 24, 2008
    Eggberg, PA
    OK I have had enough of these that I need another view -

    DH and I are doing great. There really aren't any issues between us right now.

    BUT, I keep dreaming that there are! The dream is never the same, but I dream that he leaves me and wake up crying. I dream that we have horrible fights like we never have (we're not screamers by nature). I dream that he tells me he is running around. I dream that I leave him....

    Each morning I wake up and I am either very upset; or I am upset and I cannot remember the details of the dream. SO, I have been pestering him to reassure me that we're OK. Which he has been doing very patiently. He even put a tracker on his own phone so that I will always know where he is. I honestly don't think he's running around and I don't think he'd leave me. So why have I had this type of dream every night for the last two weeks?

    What is my subconscious trying to tell me?
     
  2. maple

    maple Chillin' With My Peeps

    Apr 28, 2010
    Started any new meds?
     
  3. redhen

    redhen Kiss My Grits... Premium Member

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    Usually dreams arent about what your actually dreaming about...
    (if that makes any sense.[​IMG]..)
     
  4. noodleroo

    noodleroo Snuggles with Chickens

    Apr 29, 2010
    Rockport, Tx
    I have no idea what it means. My ex used to have a bad dream about me every once in a while and he'd actually be MAD at me for a few days after! I did mention that he's my EX....sheesh....

    Dreams don't have to mean anything; just random thoughts that fire off. No need to create chaos where there is none now....
     
  5. Mahonri

    Mahonri Urban Desert Chicken Enthusiast Premium Member

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    Simply love him, trust him and have faith in him.

    Take care of him and you'll never have any worries.
     
  6. mom'sfolly

    mom'sfolly Overrun With Chickens

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    I think that they are simply stress dreams. You've just finished up the semester, had toe rag to deal with and have upcoming holidays. You have a lot going on, so it is working itself out in your dreams. I have the same sorts of dreams when I am stressed, and often when I have PMS.

    It also has to do with your relationship with your dh being the most important one in your life. If he wasn't important, these dreams wouldn't bother you so much. I know when I have these dreams, the feelings are so immediate and real that they can linger, and have me feeling upset for awhile.
     
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  7. Dunkopf

    Dunkopf Chillin' With My Peeps

    Sep 24, 2010
    Kiowa, Colorado
    I have WHAT in my yard? :

    OK I have had enough of these that I need another view -

    DH and I are doing great. There really aren't any issues between us right now.

    BUT, I keep dreaming that there are! The dream is never the same, but I dream that he leaves me and wake up crying. I dream that we have horrible fights like we never have (we're not screamers by nature). I dream that he tells me he is running around. I dream that I leave him....

    Each morning I wake up and I am either very upset; or I am upset and I cannot remember the details of the dream. SO, I have been pestering him to reassure me that we're OK. Which he has been doing very patiently. He even put a tracker on his own phone so that I will always know where he is. I honestly don't think he's running around and I don't think he'd leave me. So why have I had this type of dream every night for the last two weeks?

    What is my subconscious trying to tell me?

    Do you get mad at your hubby even though you know it's just a dream? I would try not to read too much into it. I know someone that has the same kind of dreams and I know for a fact her DH is not messing around and does not have any intentions of it and in fact loves her very much.​
     
  8. ChickensAreSweet

    ChickensAreSweet Heavenly Grains for Hens

    I personally feel that if a dream involves FEAR, then FEAR NOT. (Edited to add: I would place more significance on it if it were just a warning without fear involved, if it were me.)
     
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  9. Raen

    Raen Chillin' With My Peeps

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    This seems like an anxiety dream to me. Are you stressed about anything unrelated to this in your life?
     
  10. PineappleMama

    PineappleMama Chillin' With My Peeps

    My dreams don't go towards divorce so much as death... DH is the main one nowadays but I've had the same dream about Ol' Granny dying since I was 8 or so. LOTS of things have changed since then, yet the same dream... so who knows.

    Every day we hear about death, about divorce, about fighting and cheating and... etc. And whether we consciously pay attention to the blather our subconscious does... and later when the sub is at the helm I guess it gets summoned up. Rather like how you'll find yourself humming a song when you haven't had the radio on in days... but you did stop at the grocery and they play music over their system, low, have to focus to hear it, but it's there... even if you don't think you hear it, you do, and your subconscious gets that tune stuck and you find yourself humming it...

    It's a theory anyways.
     
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