Well, as many of you know, my 20 year old DD decided she wanted my help to meet her biological father, a man she hasnt seen in 17 years. I was fine with it. We were very young when she was born, and never married.(pretty much my choice) So, a few weeks ago, I contacted him. He was delighted she wanted to meet him. Long story short, the 3 of us have been to eat several times, he offered her a part time job ( shes been looking for months) and they are talking about her staying with him the days she works. I'm happy they are both happy. DH adopted DD after we were married and has raised her like his own. DH and I have been separated for the last 2 years and he has not been there for her like he was. The big problem? Me. I clearly still have a thing for this guy, even after all these years. DH and I will be divorced soon and I have gotten to wondering about the old flame and me. I feel like I'm 19 again, and dating him all over. He's been divorced for 2 years now. I'm trying to take things slow, I dont know how he feels. The other day he hugged me so hard I thought he would squish me. Uggg, why must love be so complicated?