Basically I need advice from people who have lived more life than me, and made more decisions... I have a predicament, I am working on my Doctorate, and Im almost half way there! BUT, I want another child and there is no way I can fit that into school and my family life so what would you do?!?!? I have a two and half year old little girl and I have 3 years left of school... I'm thinking I should just wait, I'm so confused, what would you do in my situation?! I suppose I just need conformation that my thinking and believing that I should be able to sufficiently provide for my family before adding to it, is well true!!! I'm just so scared, being the first to go so far in college in my family puts pressure on a girl lol But at the same time I want a bigger family and I don't want to be old when I have it I'm just at the point where I need any life experience advice!!!