It happens every month but will hopefully be calming down in the ensuing months. Anyway, I came in the door and my boyfriend had locked the top bolt. Forcing me to knock on the door to get him to let me in. My dogs therefore started barking their heads off and I heard him say "Shut up!!!" I don't know why but every man in the world is all of a sudden rubbing me the wrong way. The one I work with ESPECIALLY and then when I come home it just seems to transfer to my poor BF. I feel bad for him but for some reason I just can't make myself lose my anger/frustration. I do the whole "calming thoughts and relaxing breaths" but does anyone have any remedies for relieving stress and relaxing before they kill someone?