Discussion in 'Family Life - Stories, Pictures & Updates' started by hollymh, May 13, 2009.

  1. hollymh

    hollymh *A Scrambled Egg*

    Feb 8, 2009
    I'm just so upset I can't even describe to you how angry I am!!! I'm the evil daughter-in-law ALL because my husband was the first son to move out and get married, so it's my fault... I'm sure many of you can understand! Anyhow mil canceled me and hubbys wedding while he was deployed so we lost all of our deposits and were then unable to have a wedding, but that wasn't why I married hubby so we eloped... My husband and I have been married 4 years now, very happy and we have a beautiful 2 and half year old! WELL, hubby's youngest brother who is 21 got his 16-17 year old girlfriend pregnant... Guess freaking what, mil is paying for or helping pay for the whole wedding!!! They are paying for a 21yr old to marry a 16-17yr old and yet won't help hubby pay for his braces that they should have paid for in the first place!!! OMG I'm just irate! HOW in the world is it OK for a adult to marry a young teenager but my husband and I who were both adults and both taking care of ourselves, us getting married is bad, bad, bad... I'm so sorry I'm just so hurt! I'm really upset by the fact that now there will be another baby and my daughter will not get paid attention to at all because we live overseas (military)... When his family came to visit everyone but my MIL paid attention to my daughter, it was hard to see... I know this is all over the place, but there are just so many things that this savage woman has done to try and hurt me and break my husband and I apart that I'm sure this is just the tip of the iceberg...

  2. jnjross

    jnjross Songster

    Apr 3, 2008
    edwards, ms
    oh girl I FEEL YA'. i was so mad about my mil today, i was twitching [​IMG] . i now understand how someone could be pushed to ...hmmm ,,
  3. hollymh

    hollymh *A Scrambled Egg*

    Feb 8, 2009
    Quote: Yea, I am about there... Luckily I only to be face-to-face once a year, but still it's hard.
  4. jnjross

    jnjross Songster

    Apr 3, 2008
    edwards, ms
    ooh LUCKY you! i live 30mins from that .. . .. .

    ihave to look over my should when i shop, we've been not speaking to her for 6 months and today she called out of the blue., to say she sorry? nope to tell us to kiss her ,,, and go to ...
    after 6 months, why call at all? we were so enjoying the PEACE!!!!!!!!!!!
    Last edited: May 13, 2009
  5. NewHopePoultry

    NewHopePoultry Crowing

    Apr 9, 2007
    I've only met my mil twice and I tell you that was twice too many times

  6. The Wolf Queen

    The Wolf Queen Songster

    May 2, 2009
    Albuquerque, NM
    Im going to have to say ask her WHAT THE HECK her problem is!!! its not fair to you, your husband, or your daughter [​IMG]
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  7. AHappychick

    AHappychick Wanna-be Farmer

    Dec 16, 2008
    mine is evil to the core, I feel your pain. stay away from her as much as you can.
  8. WriterofWords

    WriterofWords Has Fainting Chickens

    Dec 25, 2007
    Chaparral, New Mexico
    Condoning statutory rape,,, not a healthy family.
  9. I know how you feel. My mother in law hates me. With a passion. She constantly is judging me, making sure I know that she thinks we are irresponcible and stupid in everything that we do. She prys and pokes her nose where it doesnt belong. And she did for a long time litterly lie to me to try to break me and him up. She still tries to wheasle her way in at times. Like we had a fight one day here a while back and he confided in her about the fight. She then starts trying to hook him up with other girls! The nerve!

  10. b.hromada

    b.hromada Flock Mistress

    Quote:Who knows, maybe thats why they are paying for the wedding? [​IMG]

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