My hubby and me are fighting as well lately. We almost split up a few days ago. Ok we did split up.. for like one day. Our bank screwed us over with our loan. Almost made us loose our house. And in the mist of this my hubby was accusing me. Saying it was my fault for not listening to him. Which is a load cause I did listen to him. He then said he was moving back to Kansas if we lost the house and leaving me here. I assumed he ment dumping me. He said thats not what he ment but I still think it was to this day. Think he was just covering his ass after he changed his mind. I managed to get our morgage stratened out with the bank so that we could keep the house. And he apologized for going nuts on me. But the hurt is still there. I feel like he might not be relyable if something happened and I needed him to hang in there with me and the kids (2 kids, jade age 7 and aileen age 4). A few days passed that we mended and I thought things were getting back to normal when he comes in this morning from work and tells me "Are you sure we should be together?" Where the crap did that come from? I asked him of course and he said "Well you said a lot of mean things to me when we was fighting a few days ago. If you really think those things then why would you want to be with me." and I had to reply with. "I was angry with I said that stuff.. you was telling me you was going to take my daughter from me and move 900 miles away. It got nasty, we both said things we didnt mean." And he says to me "Well they had to come from some where... " and I said "yeah.. from anger.. you were a phsycology major. You should know that. " He seemed to let it go for now but he told me he wasnt putting me on his income taxes any more cause of something I said. ( He was going to leave the $2400 shed we just had built behind and I said I was taking it with me then and he said he paid for it and I said, we paid for it. You used your half of the income taxes on your car and I used the other half on the shed and bills.) So now he is all second thinking us being together and he really needs to let things go. Arguments come and go. Its how people work things out. Dont think I really need to explain that to most of you who are acctually mature enough to know that already though. Life's just so unpredictable now-a-days. I started training for my GED on the 14th and passed all the prep tests so I will start taking the GED tests on the start of next week. Sure I should have my GED reguardless but I really feel like I need something to fall back on in case he leaves me. My kids diserve to live in a home that has a good paying source of income. And if that means I have to struggle to get some sort of diploma so that I can get a good paying job then so be it. But I wont be stuck relying on a man that doesnt even know if he wants to be with me.