I have a 104 year old great grandma. (AKA Honeyma) She is a very sweet lady, and I love her more than anything. I wake up and plan my day around her. Literally. I would do anything for her. But... She is very hurtful with her words to me. She still has her mind, so NOBODY can blame it on that. It's hard when you love someone so much, and they treat you like that. I know, and understand that she gets frustrated, and angry because she can't do things like she used to, but still... You don't understand how many hours in Dr. offices I spend a week with her and my mom. Nov. and Dec. total, probably close to 100 hrs. NO JOKE! It is a long day when she has an appointment. We spent 7 hrs. in the hospital waiting for tests last Friday night and got home at 8:30 pm. Anyway, she is one of the most ungrateful person I have ever met in my life. (& stubborn, and inpatient.) She taught our little dog to lay on her legs when she has her feet up, well, that is causing a lot of problems health wise. She doesn't want her on her legs, but beside her in the chair instead. If the dog starts to get on her legs, she kinda hits the dog's head and yells at her, but at the same time, she's patting her leg. That poor dog is soooooo confused! I told Honeyma that she was confusing her. She starts throwing kind of a "hissy fit" and says I always find something that she does wrong. I only tell her something if it is endangering her or and of the animals. The other day I was venting how I felt about the Dr. We don't get along, and she always puts me and my mom down for letting my G-ma have her independence, anyway. We were in the car, when she said she wished I wouldn't be like that. (venting my anger) Then she starts crying and saying it's her fault, and I'm just making it worse. Then I said that I WOULD NOT SAY ANYTHING next time. "I DOUBLE DARE YOU!!!!" She shouts! I was furious. I wanted to get out of the car and walk home. But it was way too far of a walk, or I would've. Haha, got her though, I didn't say ONE WORD all day, then she told me to talk and she couldn't stand me not talking! I always am a happy-go-lucky kind of person, but she was more serious and would get mad if I joked around even a little. So I become serious and she acts like she can't stand me, and she hates it that I try to get to the point. What does she want from me?!? She is "Daddy's little angle", when my dad comes home, she'll be going off at me and ranting on and on, then he walks in and it's like somebody hit a switch. ANGLE! UGH! Makes me mad cause he's never seen the way she acts or treats me, then he doesn't believe me when I tell him these things. No one knows how many nights I've gone to sleep crying. She also tells people that she doesn't get their call because I "ALWAYS" have her phone. I NEVER USE IT! She pays for her service, I'm not going to use it and waste her $! She also makes fun of me all the time. I have sinus problems, so my nose is often stuffy. She tells everyone that she doesn't hear a word she says, and that I talk like a duck! She always goes "MWHAT?" making fun of my stuffy nose. She also will do something unsafe and I will tell her to be careful, and she'll come to my mom and start crying and say she should just go to an "OLD FOLKS" home, cause I'm "bossy" and " try to be the one in charge". I found though, if she starts putting on the little crying act, I'll just say, "Stop!" and walk out. It kinda shocks her, because I'm always respectful of her. But she needs to hear it. And worst of all, my mom's in the middle of a tug of war, I'm begging her to stick up for me and say something, but she has to be respectful of her grandmother. It's just a really hard situation. Sorry for the long rant. I need to get it off my chest. Thanks guys!