BYC is my sounding board, so I hope y'all put up with this. Ken is home now with no definitive results. My position at work REQUIRES me to be at certain places at certain times. So, of course, when I am gone, I worry about Ken - ALOT. I am dealing with a new facility construction project at work that has me pulling my hair out, and thankfully, my boss has given permission to be rude if the caller is just stupid or has not researched the project. Nonetheless, I am ready to pull my hair out. It is not in me to be ridiculously rude, though I should be with the amount of stupid questions I am asked about every 4 minutes. So.... I have Ken I am incredibly worried about, stupid people making me crazy and absolutely no help at all around the house from my son (lazy but brilliant, 20 years old). How do I balance this????? Without any rude comments about the lazy but brilliant son. I am so tired I can't sleep. I am taking Monday off to mop and vacuum!!!!!!!!!!!!!