Ok, let me start at the beginning. I have this friend, and he's a guy, and I've always had in the back of my mind... "I wonder if we could be more than friends?" Well, I found out through another mutual friend (keep in mind I have NEVER told ANYONE about my feelings for him) suggested we would make a cute couple. And he said, "Yea, I'd be ok with that."
So great. Now I feel all akward hanging out with him... Not nessecarily in a bad way, but yeah. So anyhow, the other day I ask him if he would go to this wedding with me, coming up in a couple of weeks. He said he'd have to see what was going on. Then later he tells me that our mutual friend's sister is getting married that same day, and he was hoping we could do both.
In the mean time, he gets his job back, so now he's not sure if he has to work that weekend (he'll find out his schedule tomorrow) but if he doesn't he still wants to go to both weddings. My friend's wedding is an outdoor wedding at 11:00 AM and the sister's wedding is in a church at 4:00. So we can do both weddings.
So here's where I need help. If he ends up not working, I need to find something to wear. The problem is, I'm only good at telling you the right camo to wear for what season. If I end up going stag, I'll probably just wear nice dark jeans and my dress(ier) blouse, but if I have a "date" I would like to look a bit nicer (I may even wear makeup). So my question is... a LBD is probably not appropriate for an August wedding, huh? Would I look rediculous in dress slacks and one of those shirt dress things? I'm so confused...
By the way, I don't even know how to act on a date. It's been a couple years since my engagement ended. This could be a disaster... Ok, I'm done rambling now.
So great. Now I feel all akward hanging out with him... Not nessecarily in a bad way, but yeah. So anyhow, the other day I ask him if he would go to this wedding with me, coming up in a couple of weeks. He said he'd have to see what was going on. Then later he tells me that our mutual friend's sister is getting married that same day, and he was hoping we could do both.
In the mean time, he gets his job back, so now he's not sure if he has to work that weekend (he'll find out his schedule tomorrow) but if he doesn't he still wants to go to both weddings. My friend's wedding is an outdoor wedding at 11:00 AM and the sister's wedding is in a church at 4:00. So we can do both weddings.
So here's where I need help. If he ends up not working, I need to find something to wear. The problem is, I'm only good at telling you the right camo to wear for what season. If I end up going stag, I'll probably just wear nice dark jeans and my dress(ier) blouse, but if I have a "date" I would like to look a bit nicer (I may even wear makeup). So my question is... a LBD is probably not appropriate for an August wedding, huh? Would I look rediculous in dress slacks and one of those shirt dress things? I'm so confused...
By the way, I don't even know how to act on a date. It's been a couple years since my engagement ended. This could be a disaster... Ok, I'm done rambling now.
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