Got a call this morning from DH's cousin who just got divorced. Well one of the kids texted him that the ex had gotten mad at the kid and had grabbed him by the neck and choked him. When he broke away and ran for the door she tackled him to the floor and wouldn't let him leave. Now his ex might weight 110 soaking wet. The kid is almost as tall as she is and is maybe 10# less. also a wrestler. That is one reason I am wondering if it was the truth. Kid claims there are no marks. If the kid was choked there would have been marks around the neck. from what else was claimed there would have also been other marks. Claims there is none. I am concerned that if there is abuse something needs to be done, but if there is none why is this kid driving his Dad crazy with these tales. I will see the kid tomorrow and talk to him one on one.