Mahonri I want to ask your oppinion as a dentist. I have 2 kids 11 yr old girl and 6 yr ld boy. I left our dentist in June in Disgust! We had gone since dd was 5 and we had moved to this house. It is supposedly a "family dentist". Had several issues before finally just leaving.I had enough issues to make me think it MIGHT be me...MAYBE We do have insurance which covers 2 cleanings a year and 50% off care up to 1500.00 EACH. So DD has had a few cavities from time to time and the husband of the man/wife team has done those WITHOUT a shot "because they were so small" DD was CRYING after so I decided I would ONLY use the wife as she had smaller hands and the guy told my DD "it is no big deal you are being a baby" I heard cuz I was there!!! So DD goes to wife for a while and things are okay.Not great but better. One of her fillings falls out a year after it is done and and I get charged for it all over again. As if he had never done it. Is that par for the course? Then Ds starts going at 5.They complain he is not still.Last year he has a cavity that needs filling so I take him and they TOLD ME at the beginning I was NOT allowed back with him. I think they were going to manhandle him as they might have thought he was worse cuz I was there.But it was his first ever cavity and when he is done Wife tells me ... I am not sure how long that will stay in as we did not get good adhesion he was moving around too much" I say so if it falls out?? she says come back in and we will try again but you might try a pediatric dentist as he is not still enough. I KNEW right then I was NOT coming back because if you are a "family dentist" but can't handle him why would I bring my other child to you but take him to the pediatric dentist?So now I am looking for another one and am a bit afraid. It HAS to be a gentle touch.Where we moved from had a FABULOUS guy. Did a root canal/post/crown and Got me OVER my dental fears but he is now retired. SO I really want to know is this a ME being cheap,picky or does that seem a bit like more trouble than one should have?