Dh tells me that I will never comprehend what men find attractive both because men find many different things attractive and I am not attracted to women... I think he is weird.... He told me today that he finds my new little muffin tops (which I hate and am trying desperately to lose) "cute". He of course insist that women are supposed to be soft and squishy in all the right places Don't get me wrong, I am grateful my DH still finds me attractive! But..... muffin tops are cute???