At my local Ramen shop b/c I don't feel like cooking and it is LITERALLY around the corner it is maybe 500ft from my appt if you count getting out of my appt as well. In sweats and a jimbe top (think yukata with ties, long as a tunic shirt) with a cardigan, I could no look like I give less of a hoot unless my hair was down. I see a group of three 40-60 year old men and one woman at the bar and go to the exact opposite end. I want to eat my dinner, read my book and go.
Of course, that isn't going to happen. I get a "What's up?" in surprisingly good english so I reply that I am fine in Japanese. As usual, they are surprised I speak Japanese, go through the normal "where are you from, how long have you been here, are you married" crap. I reply nicely because I am automatically an ambassador for every english speaker ever. I should really stop replying I am single. I spend the rest of the meal getting hit on and invited to karaoke next door. I really should take the married route next time. Or stop being so nice...
Of course, that isn't going to happen. I get a "What's up?" in surprisingly good english so I reply that I am fine in Japanese. As usual, they are surprised I speak Japanese, go through the normal "where are you from, how long have you been here, are you married" crap. I reply nicely because I am automatically an ambassador for every english speaker ever. I should really stop replying I am single. I spend the rest of the meal getting hit on and invited to karaoke next door. I really should take the married route next time. Or stop being so nice...