So here is the story I grew up all my life with my cousins here in KY some of my family when young moved to indiana and I had alot of cousins up there that I really don't know. About 10 years ago some of them moved down here and we became close to them. Hung out alot and had parties and stayed at each others house. Well after a few years some of my cousins raised here in Ky and the cousins from Indiana got into it and it came to blows. However I did take sides with my cousins who I grew up with here in KY but for good reason they were in the right. Anyways we didn't have anything to do with the cousins that moved down here from Indiana these past years I have become civil with the cousins from indiana but my cousins from KY still do not like them and blame them for alot of bad things. So If they see me leave comments on their pics or wall they get mad at me for talking to them. I don't hang out with them or go to their house or them come to mine its just being civil and comments. I don't feel like I am doing wrong to them they say I am Kissing their butts. It makes me mad and I told them it did I said if I wanted to be civil with them I will. My cousins from indiana said to one of my uncles they guessed if you didn't grow up down here we wouldn't take up for you. Which is not the truth it was just they were in the wrong. Anyone deal with this kinda thing what should I do? I swear they drive me insane.