Ok, tell me if I am being completely unreasonable here please... My husband got a citation for having expired tags on his car. It was having mechanical issues, and while it was still drivable, there was no way it was going to pass DEQ without repairs. AFTER he got the ticket, we took it to the shop to get the problem fixed, and then he traded cars with me for a day so I could take it through DEQ and then get the tags. Generally, I take care of "business" things that need to be dealt with during the day because I work at night. Well, he never gave me his ticket so I could go pay it and be done with it. He missed his court date, because as he says, "I could swear the cop said the 12th"...even though the ticket itself clearly says the 2nd. So, Saturday's mail brought an "order to appear" for this Thursday. I called the court house this morning, and they said that I could go pay it, but it would go on his otherwise spotless driving record, OR he could come into the courthouse before Thursday, fill out some paperwork, and do an online diversion class, which would keep his record clean. I told him this, and he gets mad at ME for not just dealing with it! Are you kidding me??!? He wanted me to just go pay it anyway, because he doesn't care if it goes on his record! He actually hung up on me because now he's going to have to cut out of work early (actually regular time because he works OT every day) to come deal with HIS OWN TICKET!!!! I'm so mad at him I could smack him upside his stupid head!