My mom is dying *She's gone now **update*

Discussion in 'Family Life - Stories, Pictures & Updates' started by tonini3059, Sep 30, 2009.

  1. tonini3059

    tonini3059 [IMG]emojione/assets/png/2665.png?v=2.2.7[/IMG]Luv

    Nov 6, 2008
    Southwestern PA
    Yesterday was a hard day she just slept all day and was saying weird things. I could not wake her up whether I squeezed her hand or yelled at her. When she was up she said crazy things that did not make sense. Well this morning on my way back to her room with breakfast the doctor stops me in the hall and tells me that he did not want to say it in front of her, that "She is at the end of her life and they only thing they can do is make her comfortable" I just cannot believe this she went down hill so fast. Last week we thought she was going to be able to have surgery to help/save her to this week is her last. I just don't know what to do. She doesn't know that she is dying she thinks she is getting better and is going to come home. And if we were to tell her, she wouldn't remember she is out of it completely she is saying off the wall things half of the time it is so hard to understand her to begin with. I just cannot believe this is happening I feel like I am dying inside!!!

    Obituary Link: Sheryl Tonini,
    Last edited: Oct 16, 2009
  2. speckledhen

    speckledhen Intentional Solitude

    [​IMG] I'm so sorry. To lose a parent is tough. Words aren't enough.
  3. lurky

    lurky Songster

    Jun 4, 2007
    Western MA
  4. Amyable

    Amyable Songster

    Dec 16, 2008
    Greenleaf, WI
    [​IMG] I'm so so sorry.
  5. tonini3059

    tonini3059 [IMG]emojione/assets/png/2665.png?v=2.2.7[/IMG]Luv

    Nov 6, 2008
    Southwestern PA
    It is so hard she is my everything we have always been so close. She was a stay at home mom and always there for me we do everything together. She went to all of my doctors appts with me, to college with me sometimes if I was just going down for a final or one class so we could go out to eat after or shopping. She is the best ever!
  6. 1stepcloser

    1stepcloser Poultry In Motion

    Sep 16, 2009
    Dover, TN
    [​IMG] [​IMG] [​IMG] I will pray for a peaceful passing.
  7. ranchhand

    ranchhand Rest in Peace 1956-2011

    Aug 25, 2008
    Wishing all of you strength and peace. It's hard to let go, [​IMG] .
  8. tonini3059

    tonini3059 [IMG]emojione/assets/png/2665.png?v=2.2.7[/IMG]Luv

    Nov 6, 2008
    Southwestern PA
    especially when she never drank or smoked and always went for checkups and appts. She is only 53 she is still so young!
  9. Danigirl3

    Danigirl3 Songster

    May 13, 2009
    Central Maine
    I am truly sorry. [​IMG]
  10. I'm so very sorry. [​IMG] There are no words to make this better. [​IMG]

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