I know there are tons of grandparents out there but I would like to add my name. Our daughter and her husband is expecting in Aug. I am so exited I just can't stand it. It is to bad they live 1200 miles away. Now the problem. They have an older woman who has "adopted" them. When we talk to the kids about possibility of moving back all we ever hear is Cathy said, Cathy said. If I hear this one more time I'm gonna scream. My feeling is give Cathy enough time and she will over step her boundaries. We just hate to see someone else attempting to assume the grand parent role. Yes the jealously monster is alive and well. It is out first grand child. What say you fine folks. Someone on this site has bound to have gone through this