I have a delimma....my 5-year grandson wants to go to his paternal grandparents because they have an xbox (that's why they got it). Before then, he preferred our house. I do not want to compete, but after a year of this, I'm starting to cave. However, i have found out that all my grandsons, ages 5, 9 and 13, want to play the violent, gorey war games. I hate those things, and wonder if anyone has any suggestions for cool, fun games for kids. I use to do cool, fun experiments with the 13 year old, including Dr. Dreadful and crafts, but the younger ones don't want to do them. What's going on? Does anyone have any non-violent suggestions?