not liking Christmas right now

Discussion in 'Family Life - Stories, Pictures & Updates' started by stargazingmommy, Dec 25, 2011.

  1. stargazingmommy

    stargazingmommy Chillin' With My Peeps

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    My kids are with their dad. Just me and hubby home with the animals.
    I just called my girls and got Merry Christmas mom love can't talk now bye. My 16 yr old. She's always been a mommys girl and a chatterbox on the phone.
    I guess my feelings are hurt.
     
  2. hlf1996

    hlf1996 Chillin' With My Peeps

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  3. citychickx6

    citychickx6 Chillin' With My Peeps

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    I am sure she did not mean anything by it.

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  4. KrisH

    KrisH Chillin' With My Peeps

    good thing we are here for you. [​IMG]
     
  5. stargazingmommy

    stargazingmommy Chillin' With My Peeps

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    thanks. I just need a nap i think
     
  6. HHandbasket

    HHandbasket The Chickeneer

    Big hugs to you!

    It is probably just the fact that she's 16 and probably had people hovering over her, or maybe there was a lot of noise in the background that you couldn't hear & she just didn't want to have a lot of conflict?? She loves you still.

    I miss my kids, too, though. We're all pretty bummed around here today. We were thinking this was the second year in a row we couldn't afford Christmas presents, but we got to talking, and it's actually the 3rd. Last time we had a tree and presents & had the kids/grandkids over for Christmas supper was 2008.
     
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  7. eenie114

    eenie114 Completly Hopeless

    Coming from another teenager with her dad for Christmas... Don't take it personally. I called home this morning and got voicemail and was almost glad. It's really awkward to talk to one parent where the other can hear you. "Miss you, can't wait to come home- Oh shoot, Dad's standing there. I mean.... Having a great time love you bye!"
    Maybe she'll call you back later? [​IMG]
     
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  8. sourland

    sourland Broody Magician Premium Member

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    [​IMG] Listen to Eenie - she is viewing the situation from the child's perespective. Enjoy your time with your husband. [​IMG]
     
  9. stargazingmommy

    stargazingmommy Chillin' With My Peeps

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    I talked to the older kid tonight and feel much better.
    Part of it is that I don't really trust the situation at their dads, but have no choice.
    talking to kid 1 helped
     
  10. goldies99

    goldies99 Chillin' With My Peeps

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    i just left my friend whos kids are with their dad too....and she sat home all day alone!....so be happy you have your "hubby" to be there with you.....you could be in her shoes!......merry christmas!
     

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