I just wanted to ask all you only children [whether you are currently an only child, or grew up as one], how you liked it. Did or do you ever wish you had siblings? Mixes emotions? I am technically not an only child. I was adopted and have several half siblings from my birth dad whom I almost never see. My adopted parents each have one child from earlier in life. My dad almost never sees his daughter [she was adopted by her step-dad when she was 6] and my mom does have a great relationship with her son [it was broken off for years because of his evil now ex-wife, but he is now remarried for the 4th time to a wonderful woman] although he now lives across the country. I also have two adopted sisters who are in their early twenties. One really screwed up her life [like REALLY] and haven't seen her in years. The other lives close by and I see her a few times a week, but she has a real screw loose and we don't have a thing in common. I am in high school, and have been the only child in the home for almost 5 years. This is a far cry from 7 years ago when we lived in a huge house in the suburbs of Detroit. My parents plan was to adopt at least 10-12 children, plus foster more. I now am in only child living in rural Ohio [we always said we hated Ohio] on a hobby farm in the middle of nowhere [horses, dairy goats, sheep, donkey, chickens, etc.] in a tiny house. It is amazing how life can change so much in 7 years. I have to say in general I enjoy being an only child. Not meaning to sound selfish, but I can do more of the things I want to do. No fighting over where to eat, or whose room is whose, and I can do more extra-curricular activities than many. I am spoiled rotten by my parents, but I am a respectable, rather humble, young person. It really doesn't affect me much. I don't have to share animals or anything like that either. On the downside, I am home schooled. This is my own choice, I could choose to go to school right now if that is what I wanted. Have been for 3 years. I enjoy it, and most of my friends are as well. But it means I am with my parents [well, my mom mostly, my dad still works in Michigan, and comes down here for Friday-Sunday]. School only takes a few hours per day, so it gets pretty boring here. I can't drive yet, so I am stuck here a lot. Sometimes I do wish I had siblings to play with. My best friend has 8 siblings still in the home, and it is so disorderly and crazy there, and I fit in very well.
I am not sure if I would like the lack of privacy [people walking in on you when you are in the bathroom, barging into your room and using your stuff] though, or lack of quietness. I do keep busy though, I am extremely involved in 4-H, church, and I play soccer. So I have mixed feelings about being an only child, and there are times I wish I had a younger sibling, but in general I like it. I will probably like it more once I get my driver's license next December, so I will be able to see friends more. So if you are/was an only child, did you like it or wish you had siblings? And if you were not an only child do/did you ever wish you were?
Ashlyn
Ashlyn