Hubby picked up HIS boys from the ex for the summer. So they're here. And we are having a fabby time. Until, They asked her to send some stuff they forgot in a care package. OK. I have no problem with that. EXCEPT the older (13) son tells me she is sending rated R movies and movies such as Alien vs Predator for them to see. I DON'T WATCH THAT STUFF AND DON'T ALLOW IT IN MY HOUSE! I have 4 and 6 year old boys with hubby. (Their half brothers) And even at 16 I wouldn't allow them to watch this junk! Well I explained to him that we don't watch violent movies or rated R movies. And he seemed ok with that. I didn't get an argument or anything. He just got his videogame and sat next to me showing how good he is at killing things! Little did I know he called his mommy and whined about how I won't let him watch these movies! Look, I really don't care what she does with HER children in HER house. But she had the nerve to call my hubby and tell him that I don't have the right to "override" her decision to allow them to watch junk in MY HOUSE! That she should be allowed to send them what she wants and I should have to deal with it! OFCOURSE He defended me. And told her that is not her call. That while the boys are here with us they should abide by OUR rules. NOT HERS! He is talking with his son now trying to TACTFULLY make it clear to him so he doesn't go crying to momma again when he doesn't get his way. I just can't understand the nerve of this lady! And hubby! The poor guy can't catch a break. He is walking on eggshells 'cause he is afraid to make her so angry she will retaliate. Either keep the boys from seeing him ever again, worse!!! Either way SHE has the leg up! But in no way will WE allow violent TV in the house! Her reasoning is, they can watch it after the little ones go to sleep. WELL what are the rest of us going to watch. WE HAVE ONE TV!!!