I was at my mosque the other night, and we were about to pray, when this little girl comes up to me and the people I was standing with, crying. she said that she had been on the swings outside when another girl whose name she doesn't know came up to her, pushed her off the swings, kicked her several times in the stomache (sp?), and poured a cup of juice on her. there had been quite a few other kids outside at the time, and they all named the same girl, but before I could talk to her mother, the prayer started and I decided to talk to her after. I ended up praying next to this girl and her friend. the whole time we were praying, she was giggling, running around, whispering, etc. a couple of other little kids came in and started to pray, but then left aftter about a minute, and they weren't loud at all. but when we tell this girl's mother that she was being very distracting during prayer she says that all the kids do stuff like that and everyone always blames her daughter. and when I tell her what she did to this other little girl, she says that it wasn't her daughter, her daughter was downstairs with her brothers (I saw these brothers outside, and they even said it was their sister who did it), and that anyway we should forgive her if she did do it because she is the only girl and is a little bit spoiled. She did absolutely nothing to discipline her child! I have seen this girl (who is 7 years old) swearing and using language that most adults I know would never use! and the best part is that this woman is the first person to yell at other people's kids over the slightest things. just yesterday she yelled at my sister because, while helping serve dinner, she accidentally dropped a piece of meat into a plate of chicken. so basically her daughter can do no wrong, while my sister gets yelled at for making a small mistake while volunteering to help serve dinner, which btw meant that she had to wait to eat until after everyone else, even after she spent the whole day fasting. that woman made me so angry am I being unreasonable here? because I was told that it wasn't that big of a deal and there was no reason for me to be angry. sorry it was so long. I needed to vent.