My DH is getting married in November. I asked an acquatince to make the cake. Now she wants me to hire her as a wedding planner. My DH and her fiance do not want one. We no longer want her to make the cake. Every idea we have she puts down. They want a farm theme. They do not want a fancy wedding. So many people telling us what to do and how to do it. I do not want to be ugly but will be if I have to. I have never planned a wedding before. I am doing the best I can. If anyone has any ideas or words of wisdom please tell me what to do. I cut down on all the drama of what is going on but it is getting really bad. I do not know what to do. I at one time would have said something but it would not have been nice. I am trying so hard to not be that person anymore. I just want my DH and her fiance to have the wedding they want within reason to our budget.