I received this plant at my grandmother's funeral and would like to attempt to keep it alive. So far, I have ignored it and put it outside where it has had no watering other than the torrential downpours in OK. It has had no sunlight except for the bit that is available in the mornings, and that can reach it behind the water-hose holder. I have brought it into my apartment now, because it is getting kind of cold...and I'd hate to see this really neat thing die. Any help on what it is, as well as any help on keeping me from killing it would be awesome! It doesn't smell and the buds don't open up. when they do, the flower falls off and a new one begins (you can see the new ones as the white things coming in.