Hi, This is my Frizzled bantam cochin, Flower, whom I absolutely adore. She's a real lapcat, just the sweetest thing. She's now about 17 weeks old, and I'm sooo hoping she's not a he, but I have my doubts. This is my first Cochin, so I have no experience with this breed. I've looked at a gazillion pictures online, and just can't tell for certain. Any opinions from people familiar with cochins would be greatly appreciated. Thanks so much (and fingers crossed---really want to keep this one)!