My husband and my daughter go to church every sunday. I dont go. I have other beliefs. My husband and daughter went to a thanksgiving dinner at their church I did not go. I got a call a few minutes ago from a church lady that attends the church. She told me that I need to go to the dinner that the church was having and I should get fixed up and be there by 5pm. I dont think I will be going to eat there. 5 pm will come and go> I will eat super at my home with my adult kids. Now Iam really not going to be going to my husbands church. I dont think I can bite my tongue and chew food at the same time. So More food for the church goers. I dont want to make friends I just want to be left alone. I have enough with my animals , family and Backyard chicken forums.