Hey Everyone, I kinda feel silly for posting but here it goes..... Ive got a relationship issue Need some in site or advice about. First a lil back ground. When I was 19 years old I met a man on the internet. He was a sassy man from England. We hit it off really well and became really good friends. About 4 months later I found out he had a crush on me and I on him. We decided to give this internet long distance thing a try. So we did. He came here to visit and I went to England to Visit. We were together for 3 years very happy except for not being able to see each other as much as we would like. We would Skype every night but just not the same as when we got to visit each other which because of money was only twice a year. 2009 He asked me to marry him and I said yes. We were crazy about each other. And were very excited about getting married. Well about 6 months later , after that money got really tight for both of us for visiting and trying to save money to make him a legal US citizen. We both got grouchy because we had to keep pushing things back and one day we just both snapped. We broke up the end of 2010. We were both heart-broken. To scared that we might hurt things more than it was already we dated different people. I have been dating another man who is very sweet, nice, and knows how to treat a woman right. We have been dating for a year now. I dont feel as strong about him as my ex fiancée . Is there something wrong with me? Should I give it more time? I just feel like amazing friends with no real romantic feelings and if I do get them they seem to come and go. I do still love my ex fiancée and have told the current man about how Im feeling. Ive been upfront the whole time. Just dont know if I should give it more time. Or If I should lower my expectations because Im not going to feel that way about anyone else after my ex-fiancee. ( He actually made me want to get married and have children. Which Ive always told everyone that I would never have children. And he changed that.) Just would like some insite.