so my big brother is legally bound to one of the worst people i have ever met. they have 2 kids who i feel soo sorry for. first of the girl, she isn't even a woman, she doesn't deserve that title, anyway, she weighs like 80 pounds. she's like 26 and like 5ft 6in. she's soooo skinny, she looks like she's starving. why is she so skinny you ask?? because she take laxatives. i know disgusting. soo my nephews are also really skinny too. the eldest has become very very whiney because of her. poor kid! she doesn't feed them anything healthy. they are 3 and 5 and she gives them COKE sorry in my opinion that is tooooo young to be drinking soda. they should be drinking milk and water and juice sometimes, NOT soda! the youngest has all kinds of health issues. poor baby. he has asthma and goes to the ER often. they were both premature, and sorry but if my kid had a health issue, they wouldn't be living off of fries and beans with hotsauce from del taco! she's selfish and an aweful mother! not to mention just aweful all together. so my older brother is currently deployed in afghanistan. his job is very scarey. he's an EOD, explosive ordiance disposal. he disarms bombs, like in the movie Hurt Locker, that's what my brother does. stressing him out is NOT an option. my mom and i are doing what we can. my mom had a talk with her about it recently and then again after his best friend was KIA after stepping on a secondary IED (bomb). when my brother isn't disarming bombs, he likes to race go karts and now having the money to do it, he is building a team with my dad and little brother. he just bought a trailor and 2 more kart chasis and 2 kart stands. i think he has something like 4 karts now? well he needs help picking up things here and there and dropping the chasis off so his friends who build go karts for a living and build his karts for him. well the evil "wife" has his dodge ram truck while he is over seas. does she help him? NOPE my brother called me all stressed out cuz some things needed to be picked up and what not. so i told him, tell her i am going to get the truck and i will do everything you need done since she can't do anything for anyone other than herself. keep in mind she lives with ehr parents while he deployed, unlike other army wives to come together and form bonds and friends, like my sister does (her husband is also deployed in iraq). sooo i have the truck now. when i got the truck there was NO GAS in there. like she drove around to use up the gas. she would do that cuz she's mad that i have the truck. so now she's stressing my brother out more saying she needs the truck. BULL she can use her parents car!!!!!!!!!!! her dad is lazy and retired so he doesn't do anything and her mom doesn't drive because she is too scared to drive now after being in an accident. am i giving the truck back??? sure after i use up the gas my dad put in it. and after i'm done taking go karts to the shop and picking them up cuz they aren't going to fit in my malibu! she doesn't even need it. she doesn't work! all she does is go to target and starbucks to spend my brother's money!!!!!!!!