So depressed/mad right now and really need a hug

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  1. DUCKGIRL89

    DUCKGIRL89 Chillin' With My Peeps

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    My best friend peirce told me yesterday that he and his family are moving next year [​IMG] im so depressed [​IMG] cant belive he kept it from me THIS long [​IMG] kinda mad though cause he didnt give me time to think before he tells me theres only a few months before they leave! [​IMG]

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  2. NewHopePoultry

    NewHopePoultry Overrun With Chickens

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  3. DUCKGIRL89

    DUCKGIRL89 Chillin' With My Peeps

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    Quote:Thanks! [​IMG] that made my day. Hes driving me nuts though.... I guess I should just be happy with the time I have left before he leaves [​IMG]
     
  4. Linn Bee

    Linn Bee Chillin' With My Peeps

    Quote:Do enjoy the time you have left together. Don't dwell on the short notice.

    It could be that Pierce was in denial about the family move or was hoping the move would fall through and he wouldn't need to leave.

    Try and keep this about Pierce. It is going to be hard on him. He may be your best friend, but he's leaving you and all his friends. Try not to make it seem he needs to tread lightly around your feelings about the move.

    And, yes, you do need a hug! And a hug. And a hug. And another hug. And one more great big "love ya, girl" hug.

    Love, Linn B (aka Smart Red) Gardening zone 5a - 4b in south-est, central-est Wisconsin
     
  5. DUCKGIRL89

    DUCKGIRL89 Chillin' With My Peeps

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    Quote:Do enjoy the time you have left together. Don't dwell on the short notice.

    It could be that Pierce was in denial about the family move or was hoping the move would fall through and he wouldn't need to leave.

    Try and keep this about Pierce. It is going to be hard on him. He may be your best friend, but he's leaving you and all his friends. Try not to make it seem he needs to tread lightly around your feelings about the move.

    And, yes, you do need a hug! And a hug. And a hug. And another hug. And one more great big "love ya, girl" hug.

    Love, Linn B (aka Smart Red) Gardening zone 5a - 4b in south-est, central-est Wisconsin

    I know he is sad about it, not completly mad at him, but sad that he kept it from me. We always tell each other whats on our mind and when we need comfert and stuff. Like when I REALLY needed to talk to someone when my parents were getting divorced, he was there for me to lean on. And when he needed me I was always there. He just seems a little troubled.... I just want my kitty cat (thats his nickname... Wierd right?) to stay here [​IMG] and be my bud...
     
  6. ChickenPeep

    ChickenPeep Faith & Feathers

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    I'm so sorry.
    My BFF moved away in 4th grade. It wasn't easy, but i eventually made new friends and was as happy as i was before.
    It will get better! [​IMG] [​IMG] [​IMG] [​IMG] [​IMG] [​IMG] [​IMG] [​IMG] [​IMG] [​IMG] [​IMG]
     
  7. stoopid

    stoopid Chicken Fairy Godmother

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  8. DUCKGIRL89

    DUCKGIRL89 Chillin' With My Peeps

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    Quote:I had to leave my best friend in PA to move to TN and I was depressed till I met kitty cat [​IMG] now im gonna be sad again [​IMG]
     
  9. SillyChicken

    SillyChicken Overrun With Chickens

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    It's possible, that he wanted to be darn sure this was what was going to happen before he sprung it on you!

    The nice thing about the age we live in, there's facebook, email and skype! This doesn't need to be the end of your friendship!

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  10. r4eboxer

    r4eboxer Crooked Creek Poultry

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    So sorry your bud is moving, but nothing says that you can't still be there for each other and stay BFF's. In today's world you can keep in touch on a daily or hourly basis.
     

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