This is my first Thanksgiving without my #4 son. He made the 150 mile trip to visit last weekend for his 21st birthday, but he had to work today. Even though a large part of our family was together, it was still painful. I was trying not to feel sorry for him ( and myself ) and wasn't being all that successful. Then I found the "Feds Are Watching," thread and a few chuckles later I feel lots better. Thanks again.