But I don't want him too. He wants to live on base if he joins and I don't want to live on a base. He seems to be in la la land. He's never spoken of this before so I feel like it's just a spontaneous thing for him. I'm a home-body. I've put a lot of work into my home and I have a home based business. If he joined and we moved to a base I wouldn't be able to continue my current life style and I would loose my home. I told him all this stuff and he still doesn't understand. He seems to be pitching a fit and is mad at me. What can I do?