So my wife calls me this evening, no problem, except she tells me that she wants to tell Vence and Raven that she is pregnant with another páiste(child)!!!! so apparently she just found out she is like 5 or 6 weeks pregnant by a guy she JUST started seeing, and she wanted to tell OUR kids that they were going to have a baby brother/sister. So this is where I became angry because, I am, how it's said, old school, and do not believe in claiming half-relations, because I have none, my sister and I are full blood. But mostly I do not want to put my children through this, not now. they have gone through so much with their mother lately, including her calling them ONLY when she wants to fight with me, other than that, forget it, she left us...let's see, in may of this year, and has not spoken to our children until TONIGHT, they have not asked about her, they do not miss her. I know this because my THREE year old told me "daddy, I am glad momma's gone" is that bad,or what?? I am upset, however, because she WAS expecting OUR third child when she left, but she had the pregnancy terminated. was I wrong in this, or was I right?, my sister has been on my case all night about it, saying I should have let her tell them. but my sister does not have children, so she doesn't understand.