I have a question for those who have been divorced. My husbands boss is in a very abusive relationship (the husband is extreamly bi-polar and refuses medication + he has extream anger problems) They are on a mortgage together and she wants a divorce. She is afraid that he will let the house forclose and it will go against her credit. She is trying to escape this marriage but she is having problems he has threatened her and her children's lives. I've suggested contacting an attorney and getting all her paper work in order. Get a restraining order against him, one that will keep him away from other family members, the kids schools, her work and her residence. Liquidate what she can and rent an apartment. Pack up what she can for herself and her kids. Do you have any info that might help. My family would really like to help his boss she is a very nice woman in a very bad situation.