I cannot STAND my husband's cousin. The feeling is mutual and since we live on opposite ends of the country it is never really an issue. Well we just got a Christmas package from her (very nice...not ungrateful yet) for the first time in our 15 year marriage (still not ungrateful...but it is coming) of a bunch of USED/STAINED CLOTHES for our kids. what? I mean like big, obvious yellow stain in the middle of a white shirt type of used. Faded two shades below its original color from 10 years ago type of used. Wow. I would love to say it is the thought that counts but I am missing the nice thought right now. Sooooooooo now what? I guess there is where I pretend to be gracious and send her a nice, handwritten thank you card.