My best friend is throwing a wedding shower for me, I would like it to be co-ed so the guys have a chance to get to know each other better. However, googling themes is bringing up stuff that I personally find hokey or too expensive for my friend to manage. I am 50 years old, I do not want a lingerie shower. I want stuff to replace the broken crap we have now. I do not want to have a "chef" party, or a martini bar - I am not 20 anymore. Any ideas from some of you more mature people?