So I just came from a super funny conversation with mom We decided (together) we ought to see what you all think I have promised for years now that when mother turns into an old lady (*cough* ) she is going to be living with me and my family. Because I could not see her all alone. This has led to some hilarious on-going two-way teasing about bedtimes and food choices and other stuff (don't ask ) Tonight Mom mentions that she still hasn't decided yet what kind of grandmother she wants to be in her old age... The cantankerous old lady who runs people over in her hover-round in the supermarket and generally gets her own way... Or the sweet, cheerful old lady who gives the grandkids sweets and stories and lessons on kniting ... Or the one who saves the former for the adults and the latter for the grandkids I *suppose* I'll love her regardless So... which do you think you would you be? And which do you think mom should go for?