...you've been out, anywhere, really...and after suggesting dinner out (at a cheapo but decent food establishment) just to get to out for a bit, S.O. hemhaws around about too hard to do type of stuff, then says it's amazing the distance you wanna drive just to get something to eat. It was a 15-20 min drive, max, all on my dime, lol. Oh, you know there's gotta be lots of backstory, as is true of most things, lol, but what would you have done? Said ok, cool, maybe another time 6 months from now , or ran to the store for supper fixins for later, or ???