I have a feeling most of my friends are somewhat daunted by the mere idea of trouble, trying to change the subject ASAP. Then there are the friends who I like to have a laugh with but would no way hold "deep and meaningfuls" with. There are also the people who give a quick pat and "You'll be fine", expecting me to be just that afterwards. And finally, there are the people who mean well, bless their souls, but they end up akwardly saying the wrong thing every time I go to them with a problem! Most of the time I mull things over myself if I really have to think about something troublesome.