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Who else doesn't have a valentine?

Discussion in 'Random Ramblings' started by Chickerdoodle13, Feb 5, 2008.

  1. Chickerdoodle13

    Chickerdoodle13 The truth is out there...

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    Well, I guess I don't have a Valentine this year! LOL, not that I have ever had one in the past. Just wondering who else doesn't have one either. I have never been a big fan of the holiday to begin with, but who knows? Maybe I won't be single by the 14th! :) I have to find another crazy, chicken loving, horseback riding man like myself! Those are hard to come by!
     
  2. 68CudaGuy

    68CudaGuy New Egg

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    Chickens yes, horses no.. Had a bad experience with one down at Calloway Gardens when I was about 12 years-old.

    Single? Yes, yes I am and if I have anything to say about it I'll remain that way. Valentines Day is just another day that all the happy people in relationships get to try rubbing it in the face of all us happily singe/divorced people. I've got my chickens, dogs, cats, and occasional cow at the back fence to eat turnips from my hand to enjoy the days with.
     
  3. silkiechicken

    silkiechicken Staff PhD Premium Member

    Valentines day is a big marketing scheme where companies milk consumers of their hard earned money.
     
  4. Kanchii

    Kanchii Chillin' With My Peeps

    Quote:Yes, it's a Hallmark holiday that they've milked for all its worth.

    But still, who wants to be my valentine for a day?! [​IMG]
     
  5. hooligan

    hooligan Chillin' With My Peeps

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    Hey now, Valentine's isn't just a Hallmark holiday. It does have a history behind it:
    http://www.history.com/minisites/valentine/viewPage?pageId=882

    Every February, across the country, candy, flowers, and gifts are exchanged between loved ones, all in the name of St. Valentine. But who is this mysterious saint and why do we celebrate this holiday? The history of Valentine's Day -- and its patron saint -- is shrouded in mystery. But we do know that February has long been a month of romance. St. Valentine's Day, as we know it today, contains vestiges of both Christian and ancient Roman tradition. So, who was Saint Valentine and how did he become associated with this ancient rite? Today, the Catholic Church recognizes at least three different saints named Valentine or Valentinus, all of whom were martyred.

    One legend contends that Valentine was a priest who served during the third century in Rome. When Emperor Claudius II decided that single men made better soldiers than those with wives and families, he outlawed marriage for young men -- his crop of potential soldiers. Valentine, realizing the injustice of the decree, defied Claudius and continued to perform marriages for young lovers in secret. When Valentine's actions were discovered, Claudius ordered that he be put to death.

    Other stories suggest that Valentine may have been killed for attempting to help Christians escape harsh Roman prisons where they were often beaten and tortured.

    According to one legend, Valentine actually sent the first 'valentine' greeting himself. While in prison, it is believed that Valentine fell in love with a young girl -- who may have been his jailor's daughter -- who visited him during his confinement. Before his death, it is alleged that he wrote her a letter, which he signed 'From your Valentine,' an expression that is still in use today. Although the truth behind the Valentine legends is murky, the stories certainly emphasize his appeal as a sympathetic, heroic, and, most importantly, romantic figure. It's no surprise that by the Middle Ages, Valentine was one of the most popular saints in England and France.

    While some believe that Valentine's Day is celebrated in the middle of February to commemorate the anniversary of Valentine's death or burial -- which probably occurred around 270 A.D -- others claim that the Christian church may have decided to celebrate Valentine's feast day in the middle of February in an effort to 'christianize' celebrations of the pagan Lupercalia festival. In ancient Rome, February was the official beginning of spring and was considered a time for purification. Houses were ritually cleansed by sweeping them out and then sprinkling salt and a type of wheat called spelt throughout their interiors. Lupercalia, which began at the ides of February, February 15, was a fertility festival dedicated to Faunus, the Roman god of agriculture, as well as to the Roman founders Romulus and Remus.

    To begin the festival, members of the Luperci, an order of Roman priests, would gather at the sacred cave where the infants Romulus and Remus, the founders of Rome, were believed to have been cared for by a she-wolf or lupa. The priests would then sacrifice a goat, for fertility, and a dog, for purification.

    The boys then sliced the goat's hide into strips, dipped them in the sacrificial blood and took to the streets, gently slapping both women and fields of crops with the goathide strips. Far from being fearful, Roman women welcomed being touched with the hides because it was believed the strips would make them more fertile in the coming year. Later in the day, according to legend, all the young women in the city would place their names in a big urn. The city's bachelors would then each choose a name out of the urn and become paired for the year with his chosen woman. These matches often ended in marriage. Pope Gelasius declared February 14 St. Valentine's Day around 498 A.D. The Roman 'lottery' system for romantic pairing was deemed un-Christian and outlawed. Later, during the Middle Ages, it was commonly believed in France and England that February 14 was the beginning of birds' mating season, which added to the idea that the middle of February -- Valentine's Day -- should be a day for romance. The oldest known valentine still in existence today was a poem written by Charles, Duke of Orleans to his wife while he was imprisoned in the Tower of London following his capture at the Battle of Agincourt. The greeting, which was written in 1415, is part of the manuscript collection of the British Library in London, England. Several years later, it is believed that King Henry V hired a writer named John Lydgate to compose a valentine note to Catherine of Valois.

    In Great Britain, Valentine's Day began to be popularly celebrated around the seventeenth century. By the middle of the eighteenth century, it was common for friends and lovers in all social classes to exchange small tokens of affection or handwritten notes. By the end of the century, printed cards began to replace written letters due to improvements in printing technology. Ready-made cards were an easy way for people to express their emotions in a time when direct expression of one's feelings was discouraged. Cheaper postage rates also contributed to an increase in the popularity of sending Valentine's Day greetings. Americans probably began exchanging hand-made valentines in the early 1700s. In the 1840s, Esther A. Howland began to sell the first mass-produced valentines in America.

    According to the Greeting Card Association, an estimated one billion valentine cards are sent each year, making Valentine's Day the second largest card-sending holiday of the year. (An estimated 2.6 billion cards are sent for Christmas.)

    Approximately 85 percent of all valentines are purchased by women. In addition to the United States, Valentine's Day is celebrated in Canada, Mexico, the United Kingdom, France, and Australia.

    Valentine greetings were popular as far back as the Middle Ages (written Valentine's didn't begin to appear until after 1400), and the oldest known Valentine card is on display at the British Museum. The first commercial Valentine's Day greeting cards produced in the U.S. were created in the 1840s by Esther A. Howland. Howland, known as the Mother of the Valentine, made elaborate creations with real lace, ribbons and colorful pictures known as "scrap".

    I do have a Valentine, my bf and I have been together for 7 years this Valentine's day [​IMG]
     
  6. sweetshoplady

    sweetshoplady Chillin' With My Peeps

    Feb 4, 2008
    Venice, Florida
    I have no valentine this year, but will enjoy helping others make theirs special. One of the most rewarding parts of my vocation. (As you may have guessed, I am a chocolatier)

    Hooligan - thanks for that article, it was interesting.
     
  7. Sharisr32

    Sharisr32 Egg Killer ;)

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    You have all of us how can you say You don't have a valentine i wish you the best for the day -- take yourself to a move eat dinner and now you are only spending half since your treating yourself---
     
  8. kstaven

    kstaven Overrun With Chickens Premium Member

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    Actually it means you can spend TWICE as much treating yourself!!!!!!!

    I understand the staying single attitude completely. Did it most of my life, as did my wife of 4 years. Neither one of us where looking and quite happy being single.
     
  9. pacanis

    pacanis Out Of The Brooder

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    No valentine here either, but it's not like I'm looking [​IMG]

    BTW, nice avatar Kanchii [​IMG]
     
  10. lfoose

    lfoose Chillin' With My Peeps

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    I say celebrate V day w/our chickens. [​IMG]
     

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