When I first met my husband he was working full time in a job I thought he liked until about 6 months into our relationship. He then began a PhD in sport, his supervisor gave him the irrates so gave her the flick. Now he is about a year (I HOPE) from finishing his PhD in another area. I am so sick of every night him being on his laptop, up until late. Then weekends! We have hardly any us time, but when we do it is great! He is also running a small business as well to keep us going. I work full time and suffer with anxiety and starting to get very down over the last few months as I feel very unappreciated! All I hear is when my PhD is finished it will all be better! We have endless "chats" about how he needs to help me out more around the house etc etc. Well I flew off the handle the other night and smashed his laptop! Yep, what a psycho! I just got to boiling point and went right over the edge!!! Thank fully, we were able to get back all his work onto a new laptop as the hard drive was safe!!! I just feel like I am at my whits end! I can't cope anymore! I know it is a hard slog for him and I honestly try to be supportive of everything he does, but I hate my job and I am desperate to have children and it just feels like all I do is wait for him!!! He is 8 years older than me and I worry about him being an older Dad! HELP before I lose my mind completely!