I've had them 3 weeks. I spend LOTS of time with them.They will eat out of my hand but when i want to pick them up they spaz out.I've seen pics of people with pekins sleeping on them! How do these gurus do it??? I talk to them constantly and when they are outside in the "playpen" and something scares them(other than me)they will herd under my chair.(yes,I actually have a chair in there because I'm obsessed!)Anyway,is there something more I can do,or is this about normal?