would you be mad?

Discussion in 'Random Ramblings' started by duck&chickencrazy, Nov 30, 2011.

  1. duck&chickencrazy

    duck&chickencrazy Chillin' With My Peeps

    Dec 2, 2008
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    If you and your bf were supposed to go to a concert together (a band you both liked) but you weren't able to make it to his house because of the roads being really bad (snow covered) and he still went without you. Would you be mad?

    or men...would you still go if your gf couldn't?

    He lives about an hour from me and right next to where the concert is at...and I drive a little car so I didn't want to risk driving up there...

    Do I have the right to be mad or am I overreacting? I feel like im overreacting but I just cant help but be a little mad...

    edited to add some more details

    he posted on facebook that he hopes he could still get tickets for the concert...not even 20 mins after i told him i couldnt go
     
    Last edited: Nov 30, 2011
  2. Carols Clucks

    Carols Clucks Chillin' With My Peeps

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    I would be mad at the weather and tell him to send me cell phone shots
     
  3. redhen

    redhen Kiss My Grits... Premium Member

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    Depends..
    Were you on the way to get there..and he left while you were trying to get there?? Then, oh yes, i would be livid and it'd get very ugly..
    If not.... no, its not his fault you got stranded...
     
  4. Kevin565

    Kevin565 Chicken Obsessed Premium Member

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    I know your not suppose to be mad at someone because of unforeseen circumstances but I personally would be a little irritated by it.
     
  5. spacecowgirl

    spacecowgirl Chillin' With My Peeps

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    No, I wouldn't be mad...you were the one who couldn't get there, so why should he just sit at home? If I were you I'd just drop it and enjoy letting him tell you all about the concert you wish you could have been at.

    I'm saying this as a girl. If I were nearby a show, and my boyfriend/ husband couldn't make it, I would still totally go! And I would expect him to be happy for me, as well!...just my two cents..[​IMG]
     
  6. duck&chickencrazy

    duck&chickencrazy Chillin' With My Peeps

    Dec 2, 2008
    Indiana
    OK I appreciate the responses. And I am glad to hear them. I think the main reason I got so agitated was because he got to go and I didn't. And I think everybody is right. Its not his fault, but Im still a little ticked but like I said before its probably just cause Im a little jealous that he got to go. Again thank you for responding, it really did help [​IMG]
     
  7. aubreynoramarie

    aubreynoramarie designated lawn flamingo

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    duck&chickencrazy :

    OK I appreciate the responses. And I am glad to hear them. I think the main reason I got so agitated was because he got to go and I didn't. And I think everybody is right. Its not his fault, but Im still a little ticked but like I said before its probably just cause Im a little jealous that he got to go. Again thank you for responding, it really did help [​IMG]

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    I could never be mad at my man for having a good time, even if i had to miss out​
     
  8. cameron

    cameron Chillin' With My Peeps

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    I'd still go.

    Don't get mad. No one is to blame. Save the angryness for when he really upsets you!
     
  9. Chick1043

    Chick1043 Chillin' With My Peeps

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    What concert? lol :)
     
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  10. chickened

    chickened Overrun With Chickens

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    Well... before I was married my GFs were not a commitment to me so I would say I could go without them it was not like we were married and if I dated girls that thought somehow I was like being married to them I would probably take another girl with me. I would be dissapointed I could not go but not mad at anyone.
     

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