My friend's mother who I will call Sue, belongs to a church in a very poor parish. There are large number of homeless and unemployed in the neighborhood. Sue called me and said her church was having a coat drive. I told her I would go though my closets. I decided any coat that no longer fit was being donated. I ended up with 6 coats, some where very expensive designer label. I dropped the coats at Sue's house and felt really good about it. A few days later I ran into Sue's boyfriend, he was wearing a Ralph Lauren coat I donated. I knew it was my coat because the top button was chewed. I was surprised then angry and called Sue about it. She told me the coat was too good for someone homeless and traded it for her boyfriends winter coat. I donated 6 coats, 6 people got coats, so she didn't think anything is wrong. I know when you make a donation you have no control over how it is used. Would you be upset?