Here is what I think I will say the day one of my little honeys flies into my neighbor's backyard: "Excuse me, but my wife inherited this really rare black parrot. It got out of the cage and flew over the fence and is in your back yard. Would you mind if I went in your back yard and retrieved it?" Most of my neighbors believe that tomatoes grow on trees and potatoes grow on fences like cucumbers. I think it just might work.