I get what you're saying! Although I don't want the nearby nesting eagles to hang around my property, some years back, I got to see two of them lock talons and spiral to the ground in a mating dance. It was AMAZING!
Was relieved it was only your barred rock -- who will now be influencing your fashion choices!
Sorry about your little one.
Red-tailed hawks aren't uncommon here, but lately a couple have been too close for my comfort. Still, they are less worrisome than the bald eagles who fly into the tall...