I'd write a quick note to Santa that you need a critter cam for the front of your place. You've been soooo good through all of this insanity.
I wouldn't be surprised if the driver of the white truck doesn't have some connection to your batty neighbor. It may be a relative, or someone else as...
I have no idea what time I began reading this thread, but it's after 2am & I should have been asleep hours ago.
Just couldn't stop til I found out everything turned out ok.
You & your DH deserve so much credit for your level-headed handling of this outrageous woman's harassment. I'd be proud...