When you don't have a choice...ummm, yeah, you just deal with it. I need to pull about $500 out of my rear for insulation & things will improve greatly. (Praying for Lowes gift cards...lol)
I actually have 6 kids. The 7 & 11 yr olds live with me. My 20 yr old & his gf live in my rv outside the back door of the cabin. My 20 yr old cuts my firewood & the littles & I carry & stack it. The gf sits on her lazy rear & expects everyone to do everything for her. (She's his problem, not mine...but I can tell he's getting really tired of her crap & hopefully will toss her out soon. I'll jump for joy when he does.) My son works full time, helps pay rent & electric & helps with anything I can't do on my own. The drawback, childish gf makes a nuisance of her self & throws a tantrum anytime he helps me or takes me anywhere. I just ignore her & refuse to acknowledge she exists til she gets her head out of her rear. He has been spending a lot of time at my place here lately just to get away from her & I think it's funny...lol
I do not like the sound of this girlfriend. I cannot deal with people like that.