No problem. Everyone is entitled to their opinion. If someone is concerned about predators chasing after them and want them to fly, then just leave them balanced and full winged where they can really fly and have full control of their flight. I know OP stated she was putting a top on her...
Doing the happy dance for you. You may wish to trim ONE of his wings, until you get the top on. Do this by trimming off the primaries on one wing, as this will have him unbalanced until his next molt. Cut only the bottom row (primaries) about 9 feathers from tip going towards duck...
yes, fingers crossed he is hiding, waiting for daylight to get back home to you and his girls. Will be happy to see you update that he is home tomorrow.