There is a lot of research out there that t calcium can cause roosters to have kidney disease since they don’t need the calcium to make egg shells.Could you please let us know what studies you are quoting? I could not find any actual study online that said this, just lots of opinions. I looked at the Merck Veterinary manual online for effects of calcium in feed:
https://www.msdvetmanual.com/poultr...t-poultry/nutritional-requirements-of-poultry
I don't see that they call out a danger of excess calcium, but they do discuss the phosphorus to calcium ratio.
We live in an area of Missouri with lots of limestone and my chickens have had access to the local rocks and soil and water, which all have more than average amounts of calcium, according to the soil and water testing we did when we first purchased our property over twenty years ago. Most of my roosters live well over seven, and I have quite a few show winners among my breeders. I don't have Silkies, but I do have breeds with pea combs and rose combs.
I would be interested to see what studies you have found on cockerels consuming layer ration.
Some people believe this and had experience with this so they feed flock raiser to their flock.
While others continue to use layer feed with their entire flock.
It just comes down to choice. What ever you choose, it is your choice.