My two cents (hope it's worth that much)...
I think Oma is trying to help take care of family, but maybe doesn't have the best people skills.
I think SarahF's baby will be blessed to have so many generations in the area to grow up around. Too many people these days don't have strong family ties, and I think that's a shame.
SarahF, when you feel you're losing your cool, try and count your blessings. You are healthy, expecting a child, in a good marriage, living in a safe place, with years of life & love ahead of you.
Ask Oma about the mum, and giggle at the end of the question when you mention the one mum looks lonely.
Ask Oma's opinion on slaughtering the hens, instead of nursing them through the winter.
My anecdote:
I had a really mean, crotchety Grandpa who regularly made me cry as a child. Mom told me if I'd give him a hug or a kiss he'd leave me alone. I didn't believe her. Then one day, as I was being crushed against a door jamb, I could see no other way out. I kissed that mean old man on the cheek. He leaped away as if I'd slapped him, and sputtered all the way out of the house. And he never picked on me again, although he'd threaten me from time to time, it was with a twinkle in his eyes. It was like I'd passed a test. I miss that mean old man!
I think Oma is trying to help take care of family, but maybe doesn't have the best people skills.
I think SarahF's baby will be blessed to have so many generations in the area to grow up around. Too many people these days don't have strong family ties, and I think that's a shame.
SarahF, when you feel you're losing your cool, try and count your blessings. You are healthy, expecting a child, in a good marriage, living in a safe place, with years of life & love ahead of you.
Ask Oma about the mum, and giggle at the end of the question when you mention the one mum looks lonely.
Ask Oma's opinion on slaughtering the hens, instead of nursing them through the winter.
My anecdote:
I had a really mean, crotchety Grandpa who regularly made me cry as a child. Mom told me if I'd give him a hug or a kiss he'd leave me alone. I didn't believe her. Then one day, as I was being crushed against a door jamb, I could see no other way out. I kissed that mean old man on the cheek. He leaped away as if I'd slapped him, and sputtered all the way out of the house. And he never picked on me again, although he'd threaten me from time to time, it was with a twinkle in his eyes. It was like I'd passed a test. I miss that mean old man!